LOL hun thats the truth about most jobs in general. They all seem that way until you do them then you think why did I want this job again??? Its very hard to find or get a job that you love to do and love doing at the same time that's why when you do hang on to it with both hands and don't let go for nothing. I so hope that Mel has found her love in wanting to be a writer but if not then I can only hope that what ever she thinks she wants to do will be something she loves and want to do everyday because life is long and you might as well try and have both, that is getting paid to do what you love to do. I think its everyone's wish for there kids...