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[reymonkey]

My father-in-law, the same man who I only refer to as such out of his earshot because he does not even want to hear that we’re lesbians, the man who we think accepted that he’d rather have a daughter in law he likes than a son in law he doesn’t, but who never ever wants to acknowledge his daughter is a lesbian, tonight gave me lessons on a windsor knot with one of his neckties.

He knows it’s for my Halloween costume, but it also sort of makes me wonder if I should have switched out my chest binder for the bra before going over there, or if I should see if he’d be okay with a daughter in law who could also be a son in law…